If you’re apart from someone in an emotional period (especially an ex-lover) the Tarot can help give you insight and this does he miss me Tarot spread can give you an insight into whether or not he’s thinking about you.
We’re not just looking for a simple yes or no here. The Tarot can give us deeper insight into how he feels about you and what you can do to bring you both back together (if that’s what you want).
I don’t want to just give you a few card definitions and let you figure it out by yourself. I can do a free Tarot reading for you and send you a handwritten spread that ties the message together or I can show you how to do this kind of reading for yourself.
Free Does He Miss Me Tarot Spread
This is not just a few random cards and their meaning. To fully understand if they miss you (and how to fix things) you need to look at the combination of the cards. If you’d like – I can do that for you.
How to Do a Does He Miss Me Tarot Spread
If you’d rather do the Tarot reading yourself then I have a layout, some advice and some specific cards you should watch out for. Obviously, I can’t cover every possible combination that could come up in this type of reading but this should be enough to get you started.
First of all, make sure you have a clear wording of the question. In emotionally charged questions we sometimes let our desires change the question as we draw each card. Let’s keep it simple.
Does he miss me?
Shuffle the cards, cleanse the deck and keep this question and a clear picture of him in mind before you draw the cards face down before you.
Card One: His Previous Thoughts
The first card gives you an insight into how he saw you. How he perceived you in general. The things he loved about you and what he’ll miss the most.
Don’t rush past this card. Understanding what he was thinking can give us a lot of insight into the things that will get him to reach out again.
Card Two: His Current Feelings
This is the card that can give you insight into whether he misses you right now.
The second card shows us the present. This is what he’s thinking about you right now. What is on his mind? How does he feel about you now? Is there still love there?
Remember that during emotionally charged periods this can change quickly. It might be that his judgment is clouded or he doesn’t even know how he feels. Take your time with this card too and see how it connects to the first one.
Card Three: The Distance
The third card shows us the distance between you and him. This can be physical, spiritual or emotional. How far apart are you both right now? What’s causing that divide (it might not always be what you’d expect).
This card is important because it can tell us how much he’s missing you. If the gap is large, then he might be feeling a lot of pain and longing. If the gap is small, then he might be trying to close that distance but is finding it difficult.
Perhaps he wants to reach back out to you but doesn’t know how you’d respond.
Card Four: The Action
The final card can give you guidance on how you can help things along. This might be how you can help bridge the gap and bring you both back together or how you can help yourself move on.
The fourth card shows us the action he’s taking (or not taking). This is usually an important clue as to what we need to do to get him back. What does he need from you? What do you (truly) need from him?
Important Cards for Whether He Misses You
Every card is important (not just the major arcana cards) but there are a few cards in the tarot deck that are especially significant when it comes to someone missing you.
The Chariot Card
This card shows us the drive and determination he has to reach out to you again. He certainly misses you but might be trying to figure out how to reach back out.
If it’s reversed, then he’s struggling with the idea of getting back in touch and might be dealing with the fear of rejection or insecurities.
The Lovers Card
This one probably doesn’t need a lot of explanation. It’s an indication that your ex-lover not only misses you but is actively thinking about you often. It’s a sign he misses you deeply.
While this might be good news (if it’s what you wanted) it doesn’t mean that he’s going to reach back out. Look at the full combination of the cards to see what else is going on.
The Tower Card
This signifies a major change or upheaval and it might be that your current separation is a tower moment in itself. It might be turbulent but there’s a reason behind it and it will lead to better things.
Again, you’ll need to look at the other cards in combination to see the full story.
The Magician Card
This is a card of manifestation and often shows up when we’re trying to manifest a desire. In this case, the desire is for your ex-lover to reach out to you again. This card is the symbol of new beginnings and opportunities which is a fantastic sign of getting back together.
Just be sure that this is something you truly want and you’re not just holding onto a wish because of the pain of the separation.
The Hanged Man Card
This card is about sacrifice and often suggests that we need to let go of something in order to get what we want. In this case, it might be that you need to let go of your hopes and dreams of getting back together in order to truly move on.
It can mean that moving on is actually the road to them missing you more and wanting to get back together.
The World Card
The world card is a sign of completion and manifestation. It often shows up when we’ve finally reached a goal or destination. In this case, it’s a sign that you’ve both completed the journey of separation and are now ready to come back together.
This doesn’t mean things will be easy – but it’s a very positive sign.
The Judgement Card
The Judgement card often shows up when we need to make a decision about something. In this case, it might be whether or not to reach out to your ex-lover and try to reconcile things.
This is a big decision and the judgment card asks you to weigh all of the options carefully before making a choice. The next steps will be up to you and subconsciously he knows that.
The Empress Card
The empress card is all about creativity, fertility, and abundance. Often, it suggests that the path to getting back together is already laid out in front of you but you might not see it yet.
All you need to do is trust your intuition and go with the flow. The pain and turbulence of the situation can be a distraction but perhaps taking some time to meditate and clear your mind will help you see the path clearly again.
If you’re looking to do a tarot reading on whether or not your ex-lover misses you, these are the cards you’ll want to focus on. However, don’t forget that every card in the deck is important.