Using an is he the one tarot spread can give you insight into an existing or potential relationship so you don’t waste time on the wrong person. Tarot cards can help you find your soulmate, your true connection and the person you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with.
It can also warn you away from relationships with the wrong person.
I can do a card spread for you or, if you prefer, I can show you how to do one yourself.
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If you’d like me to do the reading for you, just take a few minutes to share the details of the person you’re in a relationship with (or the potential person) and I’ll help you get an insight into your future together (and the timelines involved).
How to Do a Is He the One Tarot Spread
If you prefer to do tarot readings yourself, there’s a simple spread I suggest.
Note: I don’t like using a single card tarot for such an important question. I know some readers prefer to do this but there are so many potential lessons you miss out on. The deeper meaning and full guidance will come from the combination of cards in our spread.
Before drawing any cards:
- Be very clear of your intention before beginning. Set your question very specifically.
- Focus on him and your potential future together. Hold the picture of his face in your mind’s eye as clearly as you can.
- Make sure you (properly) shuffle and cleanse your deck before beginning.
It’s the combination of these cards which will tell you if he is the one for you.
Card 1: Your Current Connection
Your first card gives you an insight into your current connection together, whether it’s romantic or not at the moment.
It’s important to look at the present if you want to fully understand the relationship. They say we can’t know where we’re going if we don’t know where we’re coming from.
This can give you an insight into:
- How he feels.
- What he thinks about you.
- The strength of your current connection.
Card 2: Your Future Together
Your second card looks at the future of your relationship together. Where you’re headed together and the changes you’ll face.
A major arcana tarot in this position is always a positive sign though far from the only one. The combination of the first and second cards can start to paint a clear picture of the relationship the two of you share.
You could narrow this down further with your question or sometimes specific cards might spell things for you.
- Is marriage on the cards?
- Will they be committed to you?
- Will you be happy together?
- How soon before you take the next step together? (You can take this further with a when will I find love spread).
Card 3: The Advice Card
Potentially the most important card in the spread, the final card gives you advice on how to further your relationship.
Not every reader chooses to use this position like this. It’s human nature to use the tarot just to look ahead but allowing it to give us guidance on the future is where it really shines.
Especially if he’s the one. Knowing how to make the most of the relationship means we don’t waste the opportunity of such a strong connection.
Card 4: The Conflict Card
With a close combination to the previous card, this one focuses on your biggest conflict. This is the biggest obstacle you’ll need to focus on.
This might be something you’ll face together or as an individual but this is the warning card. The one big thing which can throw a spanner in the works.
Card 5: The Positive Connections Card
Far more positive than the last two cards. The fifth card gives you an insight into the positive side of your current relationship. How you are both connecting, where you agree and where you both push each other to improve.
If they are the one you’ll both push each other towards something better. You’ll share positive connections.
Card 6: What Does He Need to Be Ready?
What needs to happen in order for him to be ready for this kind of connection? What can you do to help him? Perhaps, depending on the card, you don’t even need anything. He might already be ready to take that next step with you.
Taking the advice of this card will help further your journey together sooner.