A ‘Will he contact me again’ Tarot spread can give you insight into whether or not he will reach out to you. Will he make the first step? Will he message? Will he call, or will he make plans to see you?
Through the Tarot, you can gain clarity on the situation. It can show you the energy around the relationship and what they want to tell you and give you guidance on how to get what you want in the relationship.
Free Will He Contact Me Again Tarot Spread
If you’d like help, I can do a free Tarot reading on your behalf within an hour. Not just a couple of cards and their meanings but an actual spread to give you some insight into what will happen between you.
Or, if you’d like to do the reading yourself, I have some suggestions on layouts and important cards to watch out for.
Asking the Tarot: Will He Contact Me?
For any love Tarot reading, it’s important to have a clear question and person in mind before you even touch the cards. An experienced Tarot reader will often spend a few moments grounding themselves and being very clear about the question before going further.
Do you think they are your soul mate? Are they a crush who ghosted? An ex who’s gone radio silent? Be clear on the who and then be clear on the what. Do you want to focus just on whether or not he will contact you?
How about whether or not either of you will be in contact again or in your future together? There are no wrong or right answers here, be very clear before you begin.
When it comes to whether he will contact you again Tarot spreads, card placement is key. Depending on the goal of your reading and the type of questions you’re asking will determine how many cards you will use. The example below can be changed, but it’s the layout I often use.
How to Perform a ‘Will He Contact Me Again’ Tarot Spread
If you’d rather do the spread yourself, this layout will give you a good starting point. I’d heavily suggest not trying to load the reading with too many questions at once, but you can change cards around if needed.
If you need to go deeper into a specific result, use a separate spread or pull an additional clarifying card and place it besides that card.
Card 1: The Near Future
The first card focuses on the short term. Will he contact you soon? Is his finger on the button, but he just can’t bring himself to send a message, or is there something preventing him?
The tarot cards can give you a look at both the present and future of the connection. Sometimes the deepest insight is in the combination of these.
Card 2: Blockages from Contact
The second card focuses on why he hasn’t contacted you already. Is it due to his feelings, circumstances or an outside influence? A past relationship? Is he having second thoughts? Is there something he needs to work through, something you need to do or something/someone preventing him from contacting you?
This blockage might be something you can help with, or it might suggest patience.
Card 3: Should You Contact Him?
Especially if this was a romantic relationship, this card shows guidance on whether you should be the one to reach out. Especially combined with the blockage card, this can help you find answers and perhaps move things further than simply waiting.
Remember that the Tarot card is not just here to tell you what will happen in life. It represents advice and knowledge on how you can get the success you want and how to further your relationship and reignite your communication.
Card 4: Long-Term Outlook
This card will help you gauge the likelihood of contact in the long term. Will he contact you again? Is it worth continuing to wait for him?
This is not a complete outlook of your relationship (you can use a specific tarot card reading for that, not a single card), but in combination with the rest of the spread, this card suggests how likely things are for your love life together.
Card 5: Outcome of Contact
What will be the outcome if and when he does contact you (or you contact him)? Will it immediately ignite your connection, or will there be some friction to work through?
This card will help you prepare and suggest the best approach when contact is established. Not all relationships will be the same, but it will give you an idea of what to expect and how to handle any potential issues that arise.
Card 6: What Will Help Your Contact?
What will help initiate contact and make it go smoothly? This is not about fortune telling, the cards give you actual advice on real true love, and that might mean looking at new opportunities and new approaches to your lost love.
This might be the most important card in the entire spread. Will focusing on things as they are be enough to bring him back, or will you need to make some changes?
(Optional) Card 7: Clarity
If something specific has come up during your spread, then you can pull an optional card for clarity. For example, if there’s a blockage by a third party (like an ex-lover) preventing him from contacting you, this card might tell you what exactly is going on.
It can give you a deeper understanding and insight into the past, present and future of your communication and help you understand what will work (and, more importantly, what won’t). It can also give you an idea of how long before they contact you.
Remember that although tarot can give great insight, it is ultimately up to us how our story will go. You always need to take ownership of a long-term relationship. The Tarot can help tell you if they’ll come back, but you’ll need to help the two of you flourish and stay together.
Simple Three Cards Spread: Will He Contact Me Again?
The three-card reading is also an option if you want a quick and simple spread.
The first card looks at the outcome and likelihood of him contacting you, the second card focuses on you contacting him, and the final card looks at the overall outcome of future contact. This still gives an accurate answer, but I’ll leave it to you to decide how important this connection is. If it’s an important one, I’d suggest using the full seven cards to gain the most insight.
Important Cards for Will He Contact You Again
Every card is important in a tarot spread (not just the major ones), but these are some of the main ones to look out for. If any of these cards show up in your reading, it will be important to pay attention to their meaning and how they might apply to your question.
Hermit Tarot Card
The Hermit is a tarot card that represents introspection and looking within for guidance. In the context of will he contact you again, it might suggest that the answer lies within you and has nothing to do with them at all.
Perhaps the blockage isn’t with them but with yourself. It might also suggest that you need to take some time for yourself and focus on your own needs before reaching out to him.
Hierophant Tarot Card
The Hierophant is a tarot card that represents tradition, rules, and conformity. In the context of him contacting you again, it might suggest that you should follow the traditional approach (whatever that may be).
This might be in the literal sense, like putting pen to paper or speaking face to face. It can also be trying to tell you to adhere to any rules or restrictions that are in place (such as waiting a certain amount of time before contacting him again).
Hanged Man Card
The Hanged man means that the contact will require patience. There will be a need to wait, and it might even suggest that you will have to accept the situation as it is for the time being.
The Tarot doesn’t give advice that you’re interested in hearing, it tells you what you need to know, and maybe it’s time to focus on another area of your life for the moment. The beginning of something new (a new job, hobby or spiritual pursuit) might well allow both of you the space needed to reflect and make decisions about your contact.
It isn’t saying no. It’s saying not now.
The High Priestess Card
Another major card with an important meaning for this question. As the symbol of intuition, connection to the divine and inner knowing, it’s telling you to trust your intuition.
In this case, it might be suggesting that you will know when it’s time to contact him again. Just be careful not to confuse this with wishful thinking. Be honest with yourself and take the time to carefully meditate on how you feel before acting too quickly.
Maybe your intuition will tell you that he’ll contact you, or maybe it will let you know when the timing is right for both of you.
Emperor Tarot Card
The Emperor card is a card that represents authority, structure, and control. In the context of whether he will contact you again, it might suggest that the answer lies within the established structures and rules.
This is definitely a guidance card and will warn you away from doing something. Perhaps you’ll need to give him space or it might be referring to external limitations. Look to the nearby cards for more guidance on what it’s warning you about.
8 of Pentacles Tarot Card
The 8 of Pentacles represents hard work and dedication. In almost any position, this card is telling you that there’s a definite potential for him to reach out to you, but there’s going to be some work involved on both sides.
You’re likely going to have to do something to get him to reach out, but you’re both going to need some changes to repair the relationship. The good news is that it will be worth the effort in the end. This work will set you both on firmer foundations than ever.
Related Spreads
You can follow this spread up with others to give you even further insight.
- A what is he thinking love tarot reading can give you a very specific look at what he’s currently focused on and what he’s currently thinking.
- If you’re going through a breakup and you’re hoping he reaches out, a breakup Tarot spread can give you much deeper insights than whether or not he’ll reach out.